Bothersome thing #1490234: When people make things that have nothing to do with them their business. What's even worse than that? When they make things up that have nothing to do with them. People need to realize that it's other people's lives their messing with, and maybe it's not a big deal to them, but maybe it's a very large deal to someone else. The line that irks me most "______ has a right to know". No, they don't, even if something was said about them, which it might not even have been! There are often only two people in any conflict. Let's leave it that way. Let them talk to each other, when the time is right, and work things out themselves. It's hard enough with two people to account for, but with everyone extra it just makes it that much harder!
So here's a little hint for all you people who like to go around butting in: butt out.
I feel intruded upon.